Wednesday 27 March 2013

Happiness


Today in society we have a problem that while in was an issue in the past never reached the scope that it has achieved today.
The balance of what makes you happy and what pays the rent…
When we are in school we are told to think about what our talents and abilities are. Once one knows what you are good at look inside yourself and find out what makes you happy. The idea is to strike a balance between these two, what you are good at and what gives you a sense of accomplishment.
This seems perfect. The problem many of us don’t realise at the time is that what we are good at and what we love doing is not always something that people will pay you to do. This has lead a society where young people are stuck doing frustrating jobs to put food on the table while trying to find the time after and before work to do the things they love.
In many cases this has lead to people saving up and starting small independent businesses, while this might not be the answer for all of those out there who struggle with this problem for some it have brought relief.
For people like me who have a love of the written word but who do not have the time to develop their skills in writing the internet and blogs offer a release and a way of getting creative as well as criticism on what we write without having to pay through our ears for it…
If this trend continues it is possible that in parts of society we will have numerous small endeavours; be they businesses, blogs, art exhibitions, arts and craft markets, cooking classes or people doing more DIY around the home in order to get satisfaction, relief from the dreary day to day drudge work so many of us are subjected to.
We live in a time of hope and a time of creative solutions; do not be afraid to find a creative way to express yourself and to share your heart with others. For without these releases many of us would never know happiness.

Tuesday 26 March 2013

love thy neighbour


In the Bible we read one should love your neighbour as you love yourself.
My question is, isn’t that what we always do?
Can you truly love another if you do not love yourself?
Is your behaviour towards others not a reflection of what is inside of you?
If you show kindness towards others is it because you are a kind person or because you seek to gain advantage?
If you show disregard towards others is it because you do not hold yourself in good regard or because you are a cruel person?
I believe in both cases that both actions towards others are based on the way you feel about yourself…

Tuesday 12 March 2013

Sometimes you can't help...

Today a friend made me realise that sometime even though we would like to we can't help others if they don't want to be helped.
There will be times in life where the best you can do is to be there for that person.
The trick is not to blame yourself when you realise that nothing you say, nothing you do and nothing you think will change the mind of the person you want to help.
Do your best and know you tried.
Take care of yourself and carry on...